Nothing makes me clutch my pearls quite as fast as hearing that someone's using a specific person manifesting technique. Maybe you've used it, are thinking of using it, or are just curious? Listen to this episode to learn everything you need to know before considering using the specific person manifesting technique.
Whenever I hear someone saying that they are going to practice specific person manifesting, it really makes me kind of clutch my pearls like, oh my god, no. And I hope that it does for you as well, I'm going to outline some reasons why in this particular podcast. And if you're enjoying it, and it's something you'd like to learn more about, do check out the full length YouTube video that I made about it, I'll put the link to that in the description. So many times we learn about and practice manifesting techniques, not really understanding how they're affecting our vibration, our frequency. And this is the actual source of what we're manifesting. So when you go straight to the source, so to speak, it makes a lot more sense. And that's definitely the case, when it comes to specific person manifesting. And here's the deal, we do not manifest what we want, we manifest the vibrational match to our frequency. So when it comes to specific person manifesting, this is really important to understand. You may be able to muster the frequency by focusing your energy and your attention, and really getting your heart energy in that place. But you have to stop and ask yourself, can I sustain this? Because if you cannot, then you're going to continue the patterns, you're going to be on that roller coaster going up, yay, this is so fantastic. I've got this great person in my life. And then seeing those patterns popping out again and thinking, Oh, why is this happening again, because you focus your effort on the frequency that you needed to get into that position, but not on sustaining it. So sustaining the frequency is something you really got to think about when you think about how manifesting pertains to your relationships. Of course, we all want and are deserving of wonderful, amazing relationships that lift us up, right that energize us that both parties are bringing something to the table and synergy is created. And that all works beautifully together. If you're thinking specific person manifesting, oftentimes, it's not the holistic, big picture, frequency based perspective, it's just let me achieve this one milestone. Another reason that frequency is an important consideration for specific person manifesting is because you could actually be making your own relationship frequency even worse, as I just explained, and you see those patterns, and you start getting these feelings and emotions, which are really contributing to and creating your frequency, oh, that things never work out for me. Or maybe I'm not worthy of the kind of relationship that I'm thinking I want. And all of these types of things. Because you get on that roller coaster and you see those repeated patterns, you really run the risk of potentially making your relationship frequency even worse. Now, I'm not going to leave you hanging, you know, I'm all about experience, because experience is where our own frequencies shift and change. You have to go out in your life and have experiences in order to do that you can't just light a candle or think about it, you really need to invest in yourself. And here's what I suggest. I love this practice. You think about your ideal mate. Right? visualize them, have fun with them. But don't apply a face. Don't think of someone in particular, give the universe some wiggle room to really bring someone amazing in your life. And what you do is you go out all throughout your day and spend your day with this person, right? Everything that you are doing, just imagine your ideal mate, they're with you, and what are they doing right, have fun with it, experience it in your mind, in your heart and really get into it. And this will empower you to get on and stay on the frequency of that type of person. That ideal mate is already out there. They're already on that frequency. They are already looking for you. So you want to invest your intentional manifesting energy and focus and attention into getting into and staying in that frequency yourself. And this is just a super fun, easy way to do that. Have fun with it. And be sure to check out my full video on YouTube. I will put the link in the description here on the podcast and I'll talk to you soon